<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042</id><updated>2011-09-17T04:05:24.294-07:00</updated><category term='Spending'/><category term='Monthly Goals'/><category term='EDD Unemployment Checks'/><category term='Budget'/><category term='Goals'/><category term='Friendship'/><category term='Weekend Plans'/><category term='Debt Update'/><category term='Unemployment'/><category term='$50 Per Week Challenge'/><title type='text'>Life After Layoff</title><subtitle type='html'>Unemployment is hard but I'd like to make most out of it! Follow my journey..</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>17</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-7180657611681126303</id><published>2010-03-10T19:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-10T19:58:35.158-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Debt Update'/><title type='text'>Debt Update 3.10.10</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Car Loan: $10,218&lt;/strong&gt; (655)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Student Loans:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 1: $12,810 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Loan 2: Paid Off&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Loan 3: Paid Off&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 4: $8,548&lt;br /&gt;Total student loan: $21,358&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total Debt including car loan: $31,576&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Total debt Jan 08 was: $66,970&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've managed to pay off so far...$35,394&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-7180657611681126303?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/7180657611681126303/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/03/debt-update-31010.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/7180657611681126303'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/7180657611681126303'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/03/debt-update-31010.html' title='Debt Update 3.10.10'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-8080363917322188853</id><published>2010-01-30T00:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-30T00:31:21.369-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Monthly Goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Budget'/><title type='text'>February 2010 Monthly Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;This month we are going to be traveling Vancouver which I am so excited about. My budget is consist of car payment, student loan payments, entertainment (Vancouver) and misc. expenses. Grocery, insurance, gas, mortgage and everything else in between are covered by my husband.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 181px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 140px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432445233588545170" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t6sadx4Tjjo/S2PsKFnPJpI/AAAAAAAAAAU/FQFwJizGQFY/s320/Untitled.png" /&gt;In February I'll be focusing on my fitness, job search and cpa exam nothing else. Every day I have to make a progress towards these three things. I'm sure Vancouver trip is going to be a life time experience and I'm not going to let unemployment to ruin this experience. On the other hand, we will be really careful with our spending.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Update on $50 challenge:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Wow, total blow out. I spent $155 within 5 days. Saturday and Sunday are no spend days. I'm going to set more attainable goals I guess. $50 was little too little :)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-8080363917322188853?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/8080363917322188853/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/february-2010-monthly-goals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/8080363917322188853'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/8080363917322188853'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/february-2010-monthly-goals.html' title='February 2010 Monthly Goals'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t6sadx4Tjjo/S2PsKFnPJpI/AAAAAAAAAAU/FQFwJizGQFY/s72-c/Untitled.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-5915124054059285807</id><published>2010-01-28T12:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-28T12:02:02.929-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Unemployment'/><title type='text'>My unemployment days</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Today I managed to wake up early. One of the drawbacks of being unemployed, at least for me, is that you lose track of days and start waking grossly late. I used to get up around 7 am now days if I get up around 9-10am, I feel good about myself. After getting up relatively early today, I came to Panera bread to eat breakfast ($5), study and polish up my resume.&lt;br /&gt;Believe it or not I haven’t even updated my resume yet…I had lack of motivation since I got laid of my job. Of course traveling Europe had something to do with it as well. Finally I am back to my normal routine and feeling more motivated about job search. This time I don’t want to jump on first thing I find. I want to pick where I am going to work not the other way around. And I know because economy is so bad, it will take me longer than to find an ideal company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Today’s goals:&lt;br /&gt;• Make a list of thing I have accomplished at my last job&lt;br /&gt;• Work out&lt;br /&gt;• Painting&lt;br /&gt;• Study&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-5915124054059285807?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/5915124054059285807/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-unemployment-days.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/5915124054059285807'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/5915124054059285807'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-unemployment-days.html' title='My unemployment days'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-7584635645668199762</id><published>2010-01-26T22:10:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-26T22:13:17.946-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='$50 Per Week Challenge'/><title type='text'>Spending Recap</title><content type='html'>Today I spent:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;$5 lunch&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;$14 at friend's birthday party&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Total: $19 Not happy..&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Daily exercise update Monday:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; 45 min cardio&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;weight:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; 128 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-7584635645668199762?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/7584635645668199762/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/spending-recap.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/7584635645668199762'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/7584635645668199762'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/spending-recap.html' title='Spending Recap'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-3715333510056433402</id><published>2010-01-25T22:49:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-25T22:55:11.556-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='$50 Per Week Challenge'/><title type='text'>Is $50 enough for a week?Maybe not</title><content type='html'>I doubt. I officially started my $50 per week challenge but I'm already feeling like I failed. Today's recap (will be rounded):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;$6 postage&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;$8 lunch&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;$3 coffee and biscotti&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;$5 dinner&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Total: $22 wow what can I say? $13 lunch and dinner were not necessary. Tomorrow I plan to spend nothing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Daily exercise update Monday:&lt;/span&gt; 1 hour cardio&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;weight:&lt;/span&gt; 128 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-3715333510056433402?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/3715333510056433402/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/is-50-enough-for-weekmaybe-not.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3715333510056433402'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3715333510056433402'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/is-50-enough-for-weekmaybe-not.html' title='Is $50 enough for a week?Maybe not'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-3942768006514949309</id><published>2010-01-23T21:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-24T23:22:22.448-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='$50 Per Week Challenge'/><title type='text'>New Challenge: $50 per week spending</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;I’ve been using a debit card for every purchase I make since Jan 2008. Although it is working for me, I sometimes spend way too much than I should. Now being unemployed I really need to pay attention how much I am spending day by day. That’s why I decided to go on cash only method for a while. I am going to allow myself &lt;strong&gt;$50 per week&lt;/strong&gt; to spend so my plan is that Monday I'm going to take $50 from my checking and put my debit card somewhere I cannot reach. I think I should be able to pull it off. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Things I should watch out this week;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;On Tuesday I am going to meet with my friends to celebrate one of my friend's birthday. I already bought her birthday present and I'll probably get something to drink when we go out thats all.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;On Wednesday my friend is coming over to dinner (already have all ingredients for delicious meal) and play wii together. That should be fun!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;Daily exercise update Sunday:&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt; 1 hour cardio treadmill and some weight lifting &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;color:#cc0000;"&gt;weight:&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt; 128&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-3942768006514949309?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/3942768006514949309/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/new-challenge-to-spend-less.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3942768006514949309'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3942768006514949309'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/new-challenge-to-spend-less.html' title='New Challenge: $50 per week spending'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-6512330010451158236</id><published>2010-01-23T19:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-23T20:01:00.810-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Debt Update'/><title type='text'>Debt Update 1.23.2010</title><content type='html'>Here is my latest debt update. Good news, I am doing a lot better than I expected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Car Loan: $11,394 (655)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Student Loans:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 1:&lt;/strong&gt; $13,378 (622)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 2:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;Paid Off&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 3:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Paid Off (last payment of 600)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Loan 4:&lt;/strong&gt; $8650 (300)&lt;br /&gt;Total student loan: $22,028&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total Debt including car loan: $33,422 (compared to last month $2,177 less)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total debt Jan 08 was: $66,970&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've managed to pay off so far...$33,548&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-6512330010451158236?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/6512330010451158236/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/debt-update-1232010.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/6512330010451158236'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/6512330010451158236'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/debt-update-1232010.html' title='Debt Update 1.23.2010'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-9135165573897898607</id><published>2010-01-06T14:23:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-06T16:46:15.254-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spending'/><title type='text'>Why am I spending money???</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;I've been spending money like crazzy. As if I have anything to spend. Not only that I dont even have a job!!! I am really mad at myself. Tofay I went to immigration office to give my fringerprints which is all part of coming a US citizen so I cannot complain :) One more step closer! After I left the immigration center I went to an outdoor shopping center and I spent on:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Breakfast $5.00&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Lunch $9.00&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Victorias Secret $5.00 (soap and nail polish)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Bought 2 Crocs for backyard $10.00 (buy one get one free promotion)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Coffee $1.65 Borders&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Puma 2 shoes for $26.08 they had crazy discounts.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Massage tip $10 ( I used prepaid massage but I had to tip)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Crepe dessert w/coffee $11.00&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sunglasses $13.00&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Total:$90.73&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Now I want to go home and never get out again!Actually, I am going to work out, make my study schedule, work on my website design for the side business and polish my resume...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-9135165573897898607?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/9135165573897898607/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/why-am-i-spending-money.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/9135165573897898607'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/9135165573897898607'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/why-am-i-spending-money.html' title='Why am I spending money???'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-1916005439780892714</id><published>2010-01-04T14:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-04T14:40:18.858-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Goals'/><title type='text'>My 2010 Goals</title><content type='html'>I don’t know where my 2009 goal list is! At least this time I have a blog where I can write down my 2010 goals and not lose. I am thinking I’ve probably failed most of my 2009 goals since I cannot even find my goals! How embarrassing… I know one thing for sure: during 2009 I traveled a lot which I plan to continue during 2010.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;My 2010 goals:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Finances&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• Pay off the car loan. Currently, it is $12,049. I need to make couple of extra payments in order to pay off the whole amount.&lt;br /&gt;• Payoff 50% of Student Loans. Currently, it is $23,550. The goal is $11,775. I need to make payment of $980 every month.&lt;br /&gt;• Payoff my sister $3,800 which is for part of the real estate investment we made together. Only $3,800 left to pay.&lt;br /&gt;• Make an additional $5,000 above and beyond my FT job (which I hope I am going to have FT job soon) and Save $5,000 EF fund&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Career&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• Find a new job!!!&lt;br /&gt;• Pass CPA exam&lt;br /&gt;• Become active within a professional organization&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Life in general&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;• Become pregnant to our first child!!! This is huge. Please pray for me…&lt;br /&gt;• Go to Winter Olympics, Vancouver&lt;br /&gt;• Have many summer parties in our house&lt;br /&gt;• Start writing a book in my native language&lt;br /&gt;• Start my own practice on the side&lt;br /&gt;• Start internet business&lt;br /&gt;• Become a US Citizen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am hopeful this year... I can accomplish every one of these goals...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-1916005439780892714?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/1916005439780892714/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-2010-goals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/1916005439780892714'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/1916005439780892714'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-2010-goals.html' title='My 2010 Goals'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-2172329471118481960</id><published>2010-01-02T17:26:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-02T17:35:49.083-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Debt Update'/><title type='text'>Debt Update 1.02.10</title><content type='html'>Here is my latest situation:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Car loan:&lt;/strong&gt; $12,049 &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Student Loans:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Loan 1: $14,000&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;Loan 2: Paid Off&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Loan 3: $600&lt;br /&gt;Loan 4: $8,950&lt;br /&gt;Total student loans:$23,550&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total Debt: $35,599&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Total debt as of Jan 08 was: $66,970&lt;br /&gt;I've managed to pay off $31,371 so far...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-2172329471118481960?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/2172329471118481960/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/debt-update-10210.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2172329471118481960'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2172329471118481960'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2010/01/debt-update-10210.html' title='Debt Update 1.02.10'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-2083438023411745747</id><published>2009-11-30T14:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-30T14:44:11.230-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Debt Update'/><title type='text'>Debt Update 11.30.09</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Yesterday I went ahead and paid off Loan 2 which was $414. Hopefully when I get my next unemployment check I am going to put that money into my checking account and everything will be ok. In addition, I'm skipiing my car payment this month. Every year our credit union gives us an option to skip December if we want, without any penalty. Check with your credit union who knows perhaps you can also skip it for a month. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;As of 11.30.09 Debt balance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Car loan: $12, 049&lt;br /&gt;Student Loans&lt;br /&gt;Loan 1: $14,300&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;Loan 2: Paid Off&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Loan 3: $921 I'm planning to pay this one off during December as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Loan 4: $9,280&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total debt: $36,550&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Total debt as of jan 08 was: $66,970&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I've managed to pay off $30,420 so far..Still $36,550 to go..&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once I pay off Loan 3, I'm going to focus on Loan 1 because interest rate is around 10% for the loan. Loan 4 has 4% interest. Car loan is 4.5% which is not bad at all.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-2083438023411745747?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/2083438023411745747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/debt-update-113009.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2083438023411745747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2083438023411745747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/debt-update-113009.html' title='Debt Update 11.30.09'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-3808590683343527243</id><published>2009-11-20T17:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-20T17:25:22.090-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Budget'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='EDD Unemployment Checks'/><title type='text'>Debt situation and unemployment</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;As you can see on the right side, I have student loan debt and car loan. I've just paid my car loan for this month which is $655. It is alot. I have little bit of rainy day fund but not alot (around $5K). I am definetly counting on my unemployment check to survive. Yesterday I checked with EDD, their automated system said check for $950 was mailed out on 19th. I should probably get it either Saturday or Monday. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;As far as my student loans go, I want to keep paying which is around $700 per month. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;$700 student loans&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;$655 car loans&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;total $1,355&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;EDD check $1,800 monthly&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt;I need to live on $500 per month.....but HOW? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="justify"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-3808590683343527243?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/3808590683343527243/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/debt-situation-and-unemployment.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3808590683343527243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3808590683343527243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/debt-situation-and-unemployment.html' title='Debt situation and unemployment'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-4575829852369017913</id><published>2009-11-16T15:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T15:55:14.432-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Unemployment'/><title type='text'>What is good about unemployment?</title><content type='html'>What is good about unemployment? Now, I have TIME to do things I never had time before. Since Oct 20th,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;I finished knitting two scarves both are going to be given as christmas presents to my friends.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Finished reading three books which I've been trying to finish just one of them since January.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Finally I set up my herb aerogarden which I purchased 6 months ago and never had a chance to set up since then. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I'm working out twice a day. In the morning and at night. Before I know I hope I'm going to lose 15lbs. (it is painful)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Trying to start my own accounting practice. Actually now I can sit down and brainstorm, plan out things.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I started a new blog besides this one which is totally my passion so I hope it's going to take off soon because I spend many hours on it.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Finally I have time to study for CPA exam.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is all about seeing the glass half full not half empty...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-4575829852369017913?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/4575829852369017913/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/what-is-good-about-unemployment.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/4575829852369017913'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/4575829852369017913'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/what-is-good-about-unemployment.html' title='What is good about unemployment?'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-3716568429005264347</id><published>2009-11-13T20:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-13T20:25:18.089-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Weekend Plans'/><title type='text'>Plans for this weekend</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Tonight I'm going to learn country dance and ohh by the way I live in Orange County so country dance is not something everyone knows. I like experimenting things in life. We shall see how it will turn out. Saturday, I don't have any specific plans. I probably need to clean, declutter my house and study for cpa exam. Sunday one of my couple friend is actually coming down to visit us very first time so I'd like to present our place in best possible light. :) Also this weekend I'd like to think about what kind of things I've learned from the last job I had and what I can improve. Time to time we all need to look at a mirror and self criticise ourself constructively. We are often eager to blame or cricise others first. I want to be able go beyond that and find things I can improve and become a better person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54487/350/E582614F61D0255A5BE17D18AA080844.png" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-3716568429005264347?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/3716568429005264347/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/plans-for-this-weekend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3716568429005264347'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/3716568429005264347'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/plans-for-this-weekend.html' title='Plans for this weekend'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-9194825464190757183</id><published>2009-11-12T20:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-12T22:23:08.145-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='EDD Unemployment Checks'/><title type='text'>Finally First Unemployment Check Arrived</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t6sadx4Tjjo/SvzxSQu1A8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/DAinyAcaiSE/s1600-h/164_x600_feat_illo_layoff.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 254px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5403458948969071554" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t6sadx4Tjjo/SvzxSQu1A8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/DAinyAcaiSE/s320/164_x600_feat_illo_layoff.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Today I received my first unemployment check $475. It only covers 1 week. Some reason EDD doesn't pay for the first week of unemployment instead they start paying from the second week. The checks are suppose to arrive weekly for 52 weeks. Well, hopefully I'm going to find a job before then. It all started Oct 20th...I got laid off and applied for unemployment Oct 24th. Filled out the online form and pushed submit. Waiting period has started..On November 2nd I received a letter from EDD explaining my weekly benefit amount and claim form. I completed the form and mailed it on Nov 3rd. Today is Nov 12th and my check finally arrived. After long 23 days later. In the mean time, bills are coming! No one is waiting for 23 days to send a bill right? They dont know, they dont care. All they want to get paid. Fair. If we didnt have my husband's salary, I don't know what we would do. Now, the first check arrived with another claim form which I need to mail out tomorrow. I am just hoping that this time it is not going to take them so long to mail my check. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54487/350/E582614F61D0255A5BE17D18AA080844.png" style="border: 0 !important; background: transparent;"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-9194825464190757183?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/9194825464190757183/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/finally-first-unemployment-check.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/9194825464190757183'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/9194825464190757183'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/finally-first-unemployment-check.html' title='Finally First Unemployment Check Arrived'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_t6sadx4Tjjo/SvzxSQu1A8I/AAAAAAAAAAM/DAinyAcaiSE/s72-c/164_x600_feat_illo_layoff.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-2231117728859634405</id><published>2009-11-11T12:42:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-12T22:23:35.562-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Friendship'/><title type='text'>What do you do with flakey friend?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="justify"&gt;Seriously, what do you do with flakey friend? She thinks now unemployed, I have sooo much free time on my hand. Therefore she keeps rescheduling our lunch meeting in last minute for 3 times. I think it is very disrespectful. The thing is I don't even believe her excuses at this point. I might stop seeing her. I mean how could you make an appointment with someone and cancel it three times. Insane. Do I want to keep that type of person around me? Well, what I know is I am so mad that I am not going to schedule anything with her for a loooong time..That is what I know for sure.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54487/350/E582614F61D0255A5BE17D18AA080844.png" style="border: 0 !important; background: transparent;"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-2231117728859634405?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/2231117728859634405/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/what-do-you-do-with-flakey-friend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2231117728859634405'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/2231117728859634405'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/what-do-you-do-with-flakey-friend.html' title='What do you do with flakey friend?'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8509846984117518042.post-5115048919668715235</id><published>2009-11-10T18:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-12T22:23:59.423-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Here I am...</title><content type='html'>After getting laid off on October 20th, I went through many emotions...I consider myself generally positive, optimistic in life. Therefore, I decided to take high road not the miserable one which is sitting, crying and asking why it happened to me not others. Just like many others I also have financial responsibilities: car loan, student loan.. In coming days, I'm going to share about my journey of making most out of unemployment..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54487/350/E582614F61D0255A5BE17D18AA080844.png" style="border: 0 !important; background: transparent;"/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8509846984117518042-5115048919668715235?l=lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/feeds/5115048919668715235/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/here-i-am.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/5115048919668715235'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8509846984117518042/posts/default/5115048919668715235'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lifeafterlayoffstory.blogspot.com/2009/11/here-i-am.html' title='Here I am...'/><author><name>Life After Layoff</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08766667094860356986</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
